Love has seemingly evolved from the feeling of the heart to the pragmatism that is yet to be acknowledged by moral society.
To further this argument, we will quote from the popular sayings that have encaptured us: 'Money talks', 'Money and love goes together', 'Women will only love you when you got money', 'A lady has complained about the guy she was dating but was only interested in her fat bank account,''I would not mind dating an old lady who has a car, house and money.'
The above is just the few of popular thinking that tend to represent the opportunism that have become attached to love. It furthers the notion of true love having faded away from the beauty called life. The logical conclusion to this fantasy equals= 'the survival of the fattest bank account'.
It is no wonder that we can never come to understand the meaning of true love because we have become accustomed to listening to our heads but not our heart. I cannot categorically state that the underlying factor that constitute divorce our general society experience in high volume can be attributed to the lack of money. Nevertheless, in the thinking of the middle class society when people leave each other, more especially a women,
money has consistently, through repetitive conversation encounter, been linked to the separation.
It would be foolish to assume that financial stability should not help relax the constraints of a relationship, but genuine commitment should avail itself most when it is not any party's fault that money is not available within the period. Yes money does build relationship but money does not strengthen the emotional, spiritual and mental aspect of any relationship.
In the instance where true love is needed money remains a superficial possession that fulfill only that: superficial needs.
When reading this article an avid reader start to realise that this is not about true love but the role of true love where money remains the balancing factor not the primary factor that keep the fire of love burning.
as per the write: Anyone loving me for money shall get that: the pain of money,
Anyone leaving me due to my financial situations remains that: my enemy towards my financial freedom.
It's a painful perception that society has not dared to challenge but many have suffered incorrect perceptual degration due to the concealed beauty of two people joining together.
Lastly, love remains the survival of values than the pocket.
But be warned, money should remain the balancing factor but should not be the reason that people leave each other. That will be exploitation.
I have protected myself through values and daredevil combativeness to guard my perception against ill founded reasoning.
Loving someone should be the reason you acquire great financial wealth. Refer to Napoleon Hill bestseller,'Think and Grow rich' under the chapter of Sexual transmutation
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