My opposite sex

In the era of entitlement, most people think everyone they hang out with or associate with owe them their path to whatever 'entitlement'. Bluntly, I don't owe anyone anything or hold anyone's path to entitlement.


In my surroundings, I came across individuals who happen to have unrealistic expectation of me. Initially, I thought it fortunate for those expectations coming from the opposite sex. You might be thinking. Is this not every cynical male talk about when they have failed to convince a certain girl to bed them after a couple of beers? To say, yes, it's partly true, would not be overbearing. But, consider this; a group of women gathering in a their usual place to chat about issues affecting them and enjoying a couple of drinks. With me(male) sitting there, sharing a beer or two with them. Generally, absolutely normal unmarried women talk about clothes, kind of man they want, or, precisely, their hopes and fears.


The global community has been unindated, for almost a century, with upholding and cherishing women's rights to freedom, a beautiful life, empowerment. These values are qualities society needs more than we can hope since it categorically emphasise and enhance human rights. In having agreed on such resolution, men were sitting at the round long table agreeing to follow and practice the resolution. Where were women at that stage? Despite my very grumpy view, most women advanced to their highest possible dreams. I dare someone to come before me and say women need to be abused. I have all confidence that no rational, sceptical man can dare say or do such thing. Neither do I. Women abuse is condemned and worth heavy punishment. However, there's some negativity hindering women. What? Who? Who, what can it be than women themselves.Most women have a problem. Or should I don't understand their psychology, as everyone is used to say. I think they misunderstood a global ideal to respect, empower them. Most of females I happen to have met came to think of my standing as an individual as an opportunity to serve their needs. I have found it wrong and betrayal of global women ideals to note that there's lady who'll ask me to buy her something in this age, where women's rights are foremost in global agenda. Am I overreacting? Or is their idea of empowerment and freedom to a beautiful life, an opportunity to exploit man, mostly materially and financially? I stand against both these notions if anyone believe its truth. I have, met good looking women who also happen to be exceptionally intelligent than I and the only thing I can do was to admire them. I'm not against the idea of, 'if you anger a women you have angered a dangerous,hard, strong rock, but our sisters out there need to know that we don't owe them anything and should know to get what is due to them they work for it. That's empowerment at its best, I hope. Sitting around, gossiping and waiting for their husband's pay check never worked or it's something I hope not to do in my life. Their tendency to think they're beyond criticism is another pitfall of many. Our society has taught women to celebrate themselves and be free from fear because society has an undeniable role to protect them. That's true and warrant able, but it's also condemnable for them to sit and ridicule the very men who they said he mustn't abuse? Males are dangerous species more specially when angered.


Our sisters need to respect themsleves enough to undervalue, undermine and ridicule an honest man whose respect for the opposite sex is guided by an undertaking to respect, and protect women. As someone whose integrity lies in being more mentally than being emotional about delicate matters, I will constantly disengage myself from getting emotionally responsive until they realise there isn't anything I owe them. Perhaps my mistake would've been to express my love for sex, but who doesn't want to have sex when they're in a relationship. I will try find another way of expressing this need gentlemanly. In this way I'll be avoiding an embarrasment that women hurls at me, when I try to be upfront. Another resolution, which I hope will make things easier for me with the opposite sex, is to refrain from being the 'I' type. Apparently, ladies do not like a self involved person. There's more for me to do in terms of trying to sound diplomatic. However, I have never found it reasonable not expect ladies to confirm a request. There's a percetion that you have to understand their reaction in order to know whether she has confirmed your request. It's unrealistic to rely on such impression. If reaction was paramount women would've not have had brains and mouth.
Let's appreciate and be dynamic.