Extended personality

In the event of ounce change in the conduct of one's life, being adaptive is surely the first proactive approach to embrace that change. My recent good circumstance are worth noting. I become a salespreneur. My lifestyle must change to accomodate my progressive attitude, character. I would be mentioning below to bring into written perspective of my advanced personality. 1. I will be going out for dinner twice a month. 2. Try as hard to terminate nicotine substance getting into my system. 3. Focus 80% time of my life on reaching my salespreneurship target through excellent sales presentation, accurate product measurement, 'sexy' customer service and animated speaking skills. 4. Remain as flexible as I must to achieve my visionary self.

Creative science of serving others

It is without doubt that serving others has been the most fulfilling practice
for humankind. Men achieve considerable success by serving others.I would not remain neutral in bringing forth my position about achieving this need for fulfilment.
If I could do perfect things when doing it in the name of bieng of service to others,then I'm willingly going to relate below as the way of serving others. However, this may appear
selfish but until any substantial eveidence brought forward to me that below isn't the case then it shall remain my inner developed benchmark of serving others:
I would be holding a prestigious position as a form of serving my fellow human beings.
I would be earning a middle class income through serving others to excellence.
It is within my visionary nature to remain a servant of my people by clearly communicating my interests,
living within my means, and taking care of myself in the best possible form.
I serve others by reaading, communicating, and writing about myself or any subject of interest to me.
I would serve others by pragmatically learning to generate financial independence for my family.
I consider having at least five hundreds of thousands in my accounts as a form of serving others.

It is without doubt that there are many forms of serving one's society and the above is reletively no exception.

Cultural evolution

In my culture, there certain perceptual practices that have the power to create a confusive state of mind.
We, as shangaan people, grew up from the rural areas where economic opportunities we very limited and/or we grew up less exposed to. Our grandfathers and fathers went to areas where there is economic opportunities, i.e Joburg surrounds and other cities. However, this move were not of permanence, although some did make a permanent
move. Within this opportunity seeking was the intention to support oneself and the family. However, others left for economic success without any family of their own other than their parents, siblings and cousins behind. Within these better opportunity seekers were those who seemingly had the love of staying in these areas where went for better opportunities and living standards. These were the people who were ridiculed because of their not coming home or
came home when they were sick or have lost their jobs. There were called 'kholwa'. A labeling which I have not come to understand because the meaning of the word is,'A believer.'This was said merely because someone has not returned to their birth place for quite a while. I think it a startling and perhaps absurd labeling when looking at the understanding that man is capable of relating and changing his place of residence, without any cultural limitations. I have noticed recently that this has dissipated, despite its foundation remaining on cultural lips.
I have personally stayed in between the two,i.e occasional visit to the village where I grew and having made a well thought out conscious decision to make the current area where I own the house my permanent home. It is within my interest to remove myself from the this cultural thinking of 'kholwa' because I do not like the limitations it has on people.
My making this decision is an attempt to open myself to more opportunities of success, which has now been ingrained into my habits.I merely see myself as a descendant of my culture and gave it a new and progressive meaning. Anything that tends to be opposite of my decision does not need to worry me. Why I raise this matter has everything to do with me being in peace with myself.
Furthermore, in the same way we have become accustomed to the thinking that anyone born last in the family,especially males, is automatically guaranteed to inherit what his parents have left behind. This is stupid and we have seen people wasting every resource that their parents left behind in less than a year of their passing away. It has also created the culture of entitlement, which therefore made inheritors lazy and irresponsible.
I'm last born male from my parents but i learned that if I need great success and experience a good life, I must sweat for my goals.
I end this by saying: every culture is good when it promotes freedom and reward great independence.

Mental redirection

There's a genuine need for any principled individual to rely on the power of his mind. I rely on the power of my mind as well the heart.
Recently,I have noticed that what I think have the great power of becoming true. Unfortunately, both the negative and positive. Now, I am taking a stand of redirecting my mind towards thinking only, only, the positive. I know the hardship associated with it but I feel very much compelled to think the positive way. This may mean dreaming about success against my groundwork. My mind is uncontrollably controlling my mind, my actions, and my world.
In this way, my circumstances has been both positive and negative. However, I am only interested in the positive circumstances of my world.
I would blindly, and naively manifest the positive world in my thinking. Only the positive can make it to my conscious, subconscious and creative subconscious.
Below is an example of the positive world which my mind will be thinking along.
1.Earning R25,000,00 per month
2.Getting a job which is based on my experience and qualification
3.Meeting all my commitments
4.Becoming financially independent and so forth
I think this is an idealistic view which I am worth blinding myself towards its achievement.